Who said that spending time with yourself is boring and shameful? Why do people look weird at the ones, who are sitting in a cafe or are going shopping by themselves? Are we really so depended on others? 
I think being with yourself and zoning out of other people's company for a while is a good thing. Sometimes. I'm not saying that it's not fun to meet and chit chat with your friends with a cup of coffee in your hands. But does it always have to be this way? It has gone to the point where going out with yourself is 'not cool' and sometimes can be scary. What will other people think of me? I need to have someone by my side as I order something just to look like I'm not alone. I need someone to take selfies with me so it doesn't look like I have no friends. Don't take everything so personally. People literally won't even care if you are going somewhere by yourself or if you have someone by your side. They are busy caring about themselves, not you. The fear of being judged doesn't exsist. It's all in your head and you made it yourself. 
Get up in the morning and spend some time with yourself. It is healthy for you. Go to your nearest cafe, take a little trip to the beach or spend some money on cute clothes. If you don't want to, you don't have to go anywhere. Just grab a good old book or a magazine, make yourself a cup of coffee and read. Reading is not for you? Then make a dance party. Volume up your favourite songs and spend some time being crazy in front of the mirror. Dance like no one is watching, it can be your little secret. Just leave your phone for a second and forget about social media. Do whatever you want to make yourself happy and feel free. 
But sure, after all of that, don't forget to text your girlfriends and see how they are doing. Shhh, just don't tell them about that crazy little party you just had. Make sure to enjoy spending time with yourself as much as you enjoy spending time in other people's company. At the end of the day, you are all you have in this world, so try to have a good relationship with yourself.

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